I love doing things alone and it's affecting my relationship with my friends and partner. I find it difficult asking someone for help, even when I know I needed the help seriously. I've tried to cure it several times by talking to my partner more about my needs but after a while, i would just revert back to my previous state of doing things alone.
The truth is that I didn't even notice that I'm behaving that way until my wife complained about it. She said I don't trust her that is why I don't share my issues with her. I had to start assuring her that I truly trust her and that such behavior just happen unconsciously without any prethought. Though I'm working on it and I believe with time that I'll be free to share my challenges with those dearest to me.