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RE: Musing Posts

Married to and is being romantic, ought to be grateful and maintain chemistry as a pair of husband and wife. The thing is, an awful lot of spouses who fail to keep the flame of love between them and was forced to break the bonds that have formed together. Surely already know well that the cause of the divorce one of them is a misfit in communicating. But behind it, it should be no more reasons why marriage was unsuccessful. Some of the reasons divorce today;

  1. rush married could be due to age, financial, or trigger fear was captured others, some people tend to be in a hurry when deciding to get married. In fact, many are recognizing that fact from the beginning they already sense that there is a problem between them and their partners. But they assume that all that will be done also later after getting married.

  2. Losing its identity if it was too dependent on husbands or wives, does not want to do anything without it, will lose their real identity. As a result, the difficulty of positioning itself in the relationship. The wife and the husband does not know what you want and what to do to keep your marriage.

  3. Too busy responsibility as a parent when the recently married, relationships with friends who are still single so tenuous because it is too focused on a new husband. Same is the case when just had a baby and are busy raising children. so forget to note and prioritize husbands or wives.

  4. Have a different vision After getting married, just realized that the wife and the husband turns out to be really different. He would like to develop a career and focus on their business, while one of them would like to soon have children and spend as much time with the family. Why is this never discussed prior to marriage? Well, usually when many couples going out with hide or harbored different vision. prefer to discuss the similarities myself. But later the difference that will be the food everyday you guys after married.

  5. the problematic sex life is somehow not interested at all for sex with husband or wife. Or if it still does it, all that lived as a formality only. Any husband or wife could never be satisfied. It is so can affect mood and chemistry as husband and wife. Maybe it's because deep down inside, there's something wrong in the relationship who are afraid to talk about.