I think this is where a personal Mission Statement comes in. It can be used as a guide to help you make the best choice and it's created by you.
Mission Statement: (sample)
- To live a long & healthy life with my wife, son and loved ones, and to help others do the same.
I created that Mission Statement after 33 years of living life as me and think it pretty much says what I need to focus on.
You can create a Mission Statement too. Just take some time to discover what you value most in life and make it happen!