This matter don tey for ground. For me o, every relationship no be the same, wetin work for one person no fit work for another. So you no fit carry one formula give two people.
Unto the matter, na between the two lovers to decide who go visit; if the man dey busy well well for him working place and the woman free small, she fit do the visiting. Nothing spoil.
Then for transport fare, see ehn make we talk true for this matter. Since the time of Adam and Eve, na man don dey take care of woman. Any man wey say time don change begin dey expect woman to do everything never ready see love.
I no say make woman just dey collect from man anyhow o. Ah, that one sef no good. The woman suppose get im own work dey earn her own mula so the man go respect am. But make the man no use that one as excuse to be stingy.
If the woman wan come visit, make she use her money for transport to go. E show her her heart sef dey the thing. But when she dey come back, make the man give am transport plus find small thing join am.
That one go make the woman love and respect you wey wey sef.
I don talk my own.