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I'm truly honoured to be the host of this show. It is a programme where people are allowed to air their views and tell us what they feel is right or wrong to do in a relationship. You are welcome to join me here for the show it promises to be entertaining and informative.
Today, we would be talking about a topic - Making Her Your Priority. Yes! Today it's a topic for the guys. This issue has been a debate amongst guys and ladies and I would also want your opinion.
Firstly, you are in a relationship with her and you both are in love and it is only normal for a guy to want to treat his woman right by taking care of her, making her feel comfortable and all that. I believe as your lover she does most things to please you too, it wouldn't be a big deal to spoil her with gifts, love and attention. Some guys would say they are not married so why would I make her my priority. She's not my responsibility I can't cater for her needs but it is wrong even though you don't do everything for her still make some efforts because I believe if she can answer to your needs like a wife does for her husband don't you think she's worth every dime you spend on her and even more.
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Of course, your lover should be your top priority in any serious grown up relationship. When a man shows the woman in his life that she's a top priority he makes her feel special and secure. I'm not talking about spending money or showering gifts on her alone. I know of a relationship where the guy only gives his lady money and gifts but doesn't give her attention. I'm talking about spending quality time together, going out on dates, having long conversations and playing like best friends.
Always remember her birthday it wouldn't be nice to discover you forgot about her birthday. Text and call as often as possible. A lot of men avoid their partners calls and it's not fair at all, if she doesn't love you and miss you she won't call. It means she enjoys talking with you. If you missed her call because you were busy, when you are free call her back immediately and let her know politely why you didn't answer the call at first. Don't make her feel bad I would it is very right to take care of your woman you may be a busy man but always make time for her, respect her and listen to her even when all she says most times are not making sense. From the very first day you both agreed to love each other endlessly you became each others priority except if its not a serious relationship and my advise to the ladies because I said he should shower gifts on you and adore you doesn't mean you should now be over demanding or become a burden to him also as he makes you his priority make him your priority take good care of him and love him effortlessly too. Don't let him regret it .
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It's not about if it's right for a guy to make a lady his priority, I believe it's a chain reaction, I think it's his priority to make her his priority. With that he would do everything required of him morally, socially and other things which should affect their lives positively . Just my thought. Catch you on the live show. Till then, have a great day ✌🏼
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