I see you've probably just joined. I'm pretty new myself and trying to learn my way around. Here's a tip: make sure your tags are popular ones, especially the first one, or very few people will see them. I just happened upon your post because I put "narcissists" in the address bar, but there are just two posts in that category. The most popular tag for this post is, not surprisingly, psychology, which has over 3,000 posts.
To see a list of the most popular Steemit tags, go to the link below. It's a page I made to help me find the most popular tags more quickly:
https://steemit.com/steem-help/@doule/steemit-tags-by-topic-steemit
This page shows you the tags and their statistics: