I feel ya @walkerland! My mum is is a similar position... “just stop eating sugar” her 5 kids tell her. Well “it was on sale”, or “just cleaning out the freezer” is the feedback.
I don’t think it’s too harsh to be firm with those you love and know you can help. It can be all too frustrating to have someone make harmful choices and not listen to those who care.
Hope this month turns out better for you ;)
I am sorry to hear that, certainly not the sort of thing you want to have in common! Thank you for the reassurance. I've been feeling bad about speaking so harshly.