Both of those and more. There's been good, bad and everything in between. I deal with them new each day, intermingled with those of the past, sprinkled with a little anticipation for the future.
They each affect me differently throughout my timeline, even the same events remembered over different periods of time. I've gotten to the point where 'it simply is what it is' and come out the other side better, usually. More so as I age, I think.
I have my path, which will take me to the destination, regardless of what comes at me along it.