Sometimes, playing games with your guy is a good thing. The ideas here will set a fun, flirty tone to create a night you both won't forget.
KINKY CARDS Start with a deck of cards and assign each suit a different sexy meaning: hearts represent kissing, diamonds equal a massage, clubs are manual stimulation, and spades mean oral. Take turns picking cards from the stack and treating each other to the sexy move you draw. The numbers on the cards
ONE STEP FORWARD, ONE STEP BACK Lie naked in bed and have your guy stand at the doorway to the bedroom. Test how well he knows you by asking him questions about yourself — they can range from sexy (what's your favorite position) to personal (name your dream vacation spot). For each correct answer, he gets to move one step closer to you; if he's wrong, he takes a step back. Once he correctly answers enough questions to reach the bed, go at it. The teasing aspect will drive up his lust, and he'll also learn new things about you.
BASES LOADED Know how people refer to hooking up as getting to a certain baseball base (first base equals kissing, second base is feeling someone up, third is oral)? Bring that idea to life when you're watching a game at home together. Each of you should pick a different team to root for. Whenever a player on your team rounds a base, your guy has to give you a sexy treat corresponding to the base the player is on — and vice-versa when his team is on base. If one of your teams hits a homerun, you get to call the sex position you want. Everybody wins!
SEX TOY HIDE-AND-SEEK Plant a bunch of sex toys or seductive items (handcuffs, blindfold, vibrator, flavored lube, etc.) around the house for your guy to find. As he tracks down each one, use it on each other before moving on to the next.
20 NAUGHTY QUESTIONS The next time you're on a long car trip together, kill time in a fun way with this sexed-up version of 20 Questions — instead of guessing a person, place, or thing, you're teasing out each other's fantasies. Your guy will ask you up to 20 yes-or-no questions to figure out what sexy scenario you most crave ("Does it take place outside of the house?" "Is there role play involved?"). It's also an easy, low-pressure way to reveal desires you haven't told each other about yet.
MYSTERY TOY Blindfold your guy naked on the bed and then tease him all over using a series of sexy objects — caress his penis with a silky thong, drizzle chocolate sauce over his chest and then lick it up, roll a beaded necklace over his upper thighs. Have him try to guess what you're stroking him with, and don't move onto the next object until he gets it right.
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"One step forward, one step back" definitely sounds like something that could only come out of a woman's mind lol It COULD make him want his partner more if this is the first year they've been together, but it's more likely to make him wonder about her mental health and whether he can afford to invest so many years in such a conceited cunt, and OOPS! His dick just got soft.