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WellI have no best friends either, never had, neither has a friend of mine or my children.

Perhaps we have a certain idea about what the best friend should look like or how he/she should be. Mainly because that is what we invest in someone else.

The fact is most people do not like to invest in someone, in friendship and you are good for the time being.

There is a Dutch song with the text: Sooner or later you come to the conclusion friendship is an illusion, friendship is a dream a small parcel covered with chrome.

I think it says enough.
Be your own best friend and spread your chances. In the early days friendships were not different from now it was just they needed eachother more so it was better to stay/keep someone close.

People have not much time. With one you can talk, the next is great to go out with, another to help you move or to borrow a book from.

There is nothing wrong with you people are just complicated and although many complain about a lack of friends they never have the time to visit you.

I speak my only friend only by whatsapp. In mist cases when she is in need. If she asks me hiw I am doing and I answer she stays quiet for weeks. That is disappointing but as I moved she came to help me. So she is a friend, I can tell her everything I like or want but I can just not call her my best friend.

I hope you have a great Sunday with a !BEER, and the friends and love will show up soon 😘💕