I fear for my daughter as she’s already had a bad experience with a guy who pretended to be nice until he didn’t get his way then he showed his real colours.
A lot of men think if you pay in “nice” you should get rewarded instead of, you know, actually being a good person.
But I also know what it’s like to be a dude watching absolute sociopath douches succeed in life because they have zero empathy or guilt.