Of course, my head hurts trying to reconcile what I just said
Welcome to my world :)
I've spent countless hours trying to wrap my mind around these types of philosophical topics. Another one that kills me is trying to reason out existence or trying to imagine the antithesis.
It seems to me we have to concede that certain things can't ever be known...and that stings people like me a lot, but that's part of life.
I'll just stick with the concept that coincidences aren't necessarily just that :)
That works for me :)