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I can't watch any more youtube videos on anarcho capitalism, I have seen a number of them. they don't adequately answer my questions. they inevitably raise more and then whoever referred me to them gets mad when I ask them.

Yeah, that's a typical response, why do anarchists always defer to arguments to authority instead of just answering my simple questions themselves and then saying I need to learn more?

Do you explain how monopolies are impossible in this imaginary stateless free market?

as long as they don't violate the nap

Another premise I feel is flawed, the idea that violence will be too expensive for anyone because then people will give your protection agency bad yelp reviews and no one will do business with you, in reality violence is cheap, bullets cost very little and competition is expensive. We see this in practice anywhere gangs or cartels fight one another.
Indeed a state can create corporate monopolies but it is also the only way to break them up. In practice the unrestricted monopolistic corporation will buy out or crush any technological disruptors or the disruptor replaces them and then they have the monopoly, at the end of the day there is only one game in town without antitrust laws.