Marriage is not all ...

source: prothom alo

I have a lot of trouble on the one hand for Rita, on the other hand it is very angry. Why are you so stupid? Some people did not like him because he gave his life, what would he say without fooling him?

Do readers recognize the rita? Rita's full name is Rita Chakraborty. The house is situated in Shikder Mallik village of Sadar upazila of Pirojpur. The color of the color was slightly pressed and the height was also slightly lower. So she was not liked as a bride, many of them. The groom saw him and saw him. But Rita is not married yet. At the end of the day, his marriage was correct, but the party finally broke the marriage. The extreme frustration arises in Rita's mind. Suicides by leaking out the results. In the first light on Tuesday, the news of this sad consequence was printed on Rita.

Eating, why does not a fool understand that marriage is not everything in life? Apart from being married, there are many more people to do. People can live nicely in those tasks.

Yes, Rita has made a mistake. But he is not responsible for his death. Actually, our society pushed Rita to death. According to the first light, Rita was studying in the second year of honor at the Government Suhrawardy College in Pirojpur. Age was 21 years. In rural areas, where most of the girls get married before they are 18 years old, there is a much older age for marriage for 21 years. There is no talk of black and short on him. Who does not know a girl who is not very good as a bride, who does not know in our society? So Rita's parents and children became busy and married to the girl. But the rejection of the party repeatedly mentions Rita mentally. So he chose the path of suicide.

Repeatedly rejecting the party, Rita must have heard the rhetoric of neighbors and relatives. Maybe parents did not even spare him. He had the responsibility to break the marriage.

Rita was teaching well. If the parents did not try to marry her, then Rita would have survived. Repeatedly when the Patriot was going back, Rita's parents should encourage her in studies without trying to marry her. And what else would they blame them, maybe they could not do it after under pressure from the society.

Oh Ray society! Well, what is the social thing? Society is formed only with people. That means people are the problem. Why do people talk so much if a girl is not married? Why does the mother and father of the girl hear many things? Why are they jealous? Not only in rural society, it is happening in urban society.

If the color is black, the kind of barrier and humiliation a girl faces in our society is seen in very few countries. He may be good at studies, maybe he has a lot of good qualities. But black colored skin covers those qualities. There is no price in the marriage market. And if you are married, then it is seen that the dowry is more than the cattle for black color.

What is there to give such attention to society and such people? If a person commits suicide in their words, then the evil people of this evil society win. They can not be won. Women should not wear their words and go ahead and fulfill their goals; Being educated in life by studying.

In this context, I remember one incident of Jharkhand state in India in 2016. As a condition of marriage to a young girl, the groom's family claimed bigger dowry. But Jyoti Choudhury, who posted on Facebook, posted on Facebook and said that she would not marry the pot. He will not pay anyone for black color.

Let us all follow Jyoti Chowdhury. We reject those who condemn black color. I tried to stand on my own feet. This is the real word Once you stand on your feet, do not think about separating for marriage or color.