BENEFIT OF DISCUSSING WITH YOUR PARENTS.

in #nigeria7 years ago

I came back from school on Friday, and after some casual talks, I called my mum to my room and we had a very simple conversation that was of great help to me.

for about 2weeks+ now, I have had this anger with me which was as a result of personal issues. and because of that, I have been acting up lately to many people around me especially to my family. But on this day, I had this urge to talk to my mum about it, I chose my mum because she is more understanding. After the discussion, i felt a weight lifted off from me.

You know most of us young ones, we assume that our parents are aged, that they don't understand the trend or you think of how awkward it would be to tell your parents(mom or dad) your issues but believe you me, it helps, just remember that they were once at your age just at a different time and there is nothing new in the face of the earth.


Don't always bottin it up inside of you, share with them and you will be amazed that they might offer more solutions than your mates do because age is not just a number, it comes with experience, and no better person to know your secrets than a parent, because they won't use it against you, or tell others about it because you are family, and family protect their own no matter what.

let me know your thoughts on this, have you done such before, how was your experience?

#peace.


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Talking to our parent is one of the best things to do exactly as you said, even apart from when you are not happy you can also share your happiness with them by carrying them along, many are people that got into unforeseen circumstances after an unexpected surprise

OK, for instance, there was a particular guy who won #1,000,000 In a particular contest her parent is not aware of but instead of him sharing his happiness with his parents he called his friends together in a place and start partying

While the party was going on the party ground was busted by some gangs of hoodlums, which eventually got the policemen involved in settling the matter, but what surprises me is that the fact that the reward of the contest went missing while on the commotions.

My point is that what is the essences of the celebration that latter ended up with nothing?

Had it been he had informed his parents about the good news, it is possible he remember the outcome in the nearest tomorrow with something remarkable because one of the things I'm pretty sure his parent would have advised him would be investing the money in something remarkable.

In conclusion, sharing our happiness and worries with our parents will benefit us more than we could imagine.

Nice post.

You got a vote from me already

Thank you @honourmaus for reading and contributing your idea. Indeed, it shouldn't be only when we are sad. Thank you.

You are highly welcome, let's hook together I just followed you, you can reciprocate too