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Youre welcome any time! Thanks. Try to enjoy life is all we can do

agree....but you see the ugly truth is that we never appreciate what we have till something happens and we loose it.....and then its late even to bang our heads against the wall...life is so simple...joys are so simple...happiness most of the times is in front of us ( just like your post,a beautiful view) but we refuse to see it!!!

You seem to have realized that. So have I. And that's why I enjoy life. I enjoy time with my kid and wife and myself. I'm not waiting until I'm a pensioner or my kid is 10 or 15 until I'm going to enjoy life.

What I see a lot of people do wrong is that they are so stressed out and so not in the now, that they are "waiting for better times". They say things like; "Gah..im so stressed out. If only my kid was 8" Rather than just give your 3 year old some attention and just embrace the fact that you have a 3 year old, and that is life right now.

It's true as you say..life is right in front of you right now. All of a sudden it's over. Life is just moments happening. some significant some less so. But they are all life. If you don't embrace as many of them as possible you will regret it. You wont remember anything. Everything will just be a blur. You just went through life waiting for "something" to happen. But it never will. You have to make it happen.

It's very scary when you discover that in one of those moments you will die. But that is just life. And when you're dead you don't know that you are. So there is no other rational way to live than to just embrace all moments. And to explore, travel, have fun and most importantly be chill and have a nice time. Don't stress too much. Dont take things too seriously. They are not. It doesnt mean that much. Cryptos? Money? Who cares really. Honestly I don't give a shit. I'm in a nice hotel right now. But I could as well be in a tent. Both are nice in their own way. I could fly a private jet. Or I could ride economy class on a train. I dont care. Both are experiences. I could visit the north pole, or africa. Both are unique experiences. Very different, yet interesting in their own way.

...i couldn't have said it better!!!... thank you for expressing my inner thoughts!!!

I'm glad you feel that way! :)

And good for you for realizing that, as it is a very important life lesson. Many never realize it. Sadly they are the ones that have regrets on their death bed. "I wish I did more with my children". " I wish I did go fishing with my son". "Wish I didnt yell so much" "Wish I prioritized differently". It's very sad, but at the same time it's your responsiblity to realize it. No one can do it for you. The information is out there. Read, ask questions, talk to people..and you'll learn the secrets to life :)