Sort:  

I think Erotica is superior to porn in some aspects due to the fact that you need to use your imagination. Therefore you can relate to past experiences and you wont build unrealistic expectations in real life! :)

I totally agree,
except as a zen-buddhist, I doubt the existence of "you".

Actually , "you" exists! Not in a self sufficient way, but as a construction of many many parts. Some from your own continuum, others from related experiences and others from the surrounding fonemona! So, I don't doubt the existence of "you", but I see how it is an illusion! :p

Ok,
It illusionary exists.
Ill-existence is a nice word :_)