Being a Good Dad

in #oldtimers7 years ago

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When Your Day Starts...

When your day starts with this view, you know it cant be too bad; even if you have to get up early to get the shot lol. There is a certain peacefulness about watching morning unfold at the lake. Many mornings there isnt even the slightest ripple to the surface of the water. The reflections are mesmerizing. Then, just the faintest of breezes will start to stir. The geese, swans and ducks take this for their cue to get up and get moving too...

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Some #beautifulsunday Background

The #beautifulsunday challenge is hosted @ace108 and you can see the rules here. I try to tell a story about my typical Sunday with words and photos, and sometimes even a bit of humor here and there.

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A Good Start

Any #beautifulsunday has to start off with some YUMMY food; namely some crepes with berries and whipped creme. Super easy to make. Ill have to make a separate post on that :)

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Groundhog Day

You may remember last week, my daughter needed some clothes for the start of school, so we went off to our usual mall in Ann Arbor. We she bought some, but of course some needed to be returned/exchanged, so it was back to the mall again. Of course being a dutiful dad, Im cool with it. Its a nice drive and she is getting a bunch of good practice so she can get her driver's license.

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Being that it feels like we are rewinding the tape from last week, I thought it would be a creative touch to get a shot of the sign, backwards. Lol see what I did here lol. Pure genius I tell ya :)

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The Human Clothing Rack

Being a good dad undoubtedly means you are obligated to hold the daughter's purse and one outfit -- then two outfits...


Then More...

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On the way out I saw these purple flowers which works for today's #colorchallenge...two birds with one stone and all lol.

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A caring father must makes sure his daughter gets in her practice doing parallel parking.

Time to Refuel

On the way home, we decided to get some lunch.


Its Not a Chinese Buffet But Got to Have Some Variety

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Stopped Off at the Beach on the Way Home

The day winds down much like it started, quiet and peaceful.


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Some pretty good shots man 😎

Much obliged.

Wow, that first photo is mesmerizing: the reflection on the water just kills me. If you don't mind me asking, where was this taken?

Ive been raising my daughter on my own now for 12 years. As a single father I have met some crazy obstacles their are no easy roads. I have been treated worse than anyone should by Dr's teachers and so many others I have been told I should have just send her to live with her mom without them even knowing our situation, because I could not possibly understand the needs of a little girl and so much worse. Through it all I have never let on just how challenging it has been to her. Now she has grown into a amazing intelligent young lady top of her class as well as a top athlete, with more understanding and compassion for others than ten of her peers. To all those single fathers or just fathers who are involved with their daughters we will never do anything as valuable as to be their for them. Keep up the great work be the cloths hanger, the travel guide, the driving instructor, the mentor, be the father they deserve it is all worth it. Thanks for sharing !! love the photos and story. worthy of many upvotes !!!

Thanks for the great comment. I know the hassles that you talk about. Society always responds like that if you do any thing that is in the least bit "different". I am glad it all turned out well for your daughter and that is always the best vindication of your parenting. Well done, Sir.

Thank you its crazy how it you don't fit into their narrative or accepted truths you are outcast yet they pat themselves on the back for being SO inclusive.

Indeed. Sad but true.

Oh and by the way that bucket of chicken picture well now I have to go up to the kfc ...lol

Great reply to that fellow.

I agree.

God bless you for this.

Men have rights too. I hear you.

Thank you, and yes we do! They like so say its the other way round but Im a testament on how bias the system really is.

One day, @old-guy-photos, I will be a kind of dad you and @runridefly are

You are going to be a great father. I can tell by the passion you show and how you see the world. Just be sure to savor every moment. The time slips away so fast. It will feel like only a day or two between diapers and driving! :)

Watching you holding all those clothes--- priceless! 😄

Great post. Did some father/son bonding today as well. No great landscape pictures though...... Check my post out if you get a chance.

As hard as I work and as busy as I get I got to remind myself to take the time to enjoy life as well. Kiddos are growing up fast and I don't want to miss it.

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Oh yeah the kids grow up way too fast. I remember when they were young and hanging with dad was cool. Now it not so cool lol. I followed you and your wife.

My wife keeps telling me to take advantage while they still think hanging with dad is cool.

Thanks for following myself and @nursejamie She still getting the hang of the steemit.

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Lovely father daughter bonding

You are such a good dad! I simply could not do those learning to drive days with my daughter! I enlisted the help of friends, and they made it much more fun for her than I would have!

I have to admit the first few days there were white knuckles and high blood pressure!!!

It's not easy to be a good father. With this post, You stimulate us to be even better ....Thank You From All My Heart

Thank you for stopping by.

Aww...it sounds like you two had a really nice day together. I always enjoy seeing parents who enjoy their time with their kids instead of seeing things like school shopping as a hassle. Parallel parking is horrible. I avoid it when I can. lol. Our high school has a drivers ed course in their parking lot anyone can use which is great for parents teaching their kids to drive.

Oh yeah my daughter is super easy going. Now my son is more of a challenge...he is bull headed but I dont know where he gets it from lol.

Thanks for the trip to the mall. I liked the sunset (I think or sunrise) and the duck photos. BTW being a good dad is when you are asked to pick up feminine products when you go to the store and comply. Upvote.

Oh yeah Ive been there before, no doubt.

I saw you there looking closely at the different brands. Not!! Have a good nite.

I was looking for the clearance rack!!!! LOL

You made my day AGAIN. Have a good afternoon.

You definitely can make something out of nothing. I like how you use the mirror for selfies.

Thats my specialty.

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Very Nice I like it , Great Post ...@awan55

I very rarely think in words at all. A thought comes, and I may try to express it in words afterwards.

- Albert Einstein

Sounds like a peaceful day! I would love nothing more than to live on a lake some day. Wake up to that sunrise every morning and just have that peaceful feeling at all times. Life goal! Loved hearing the father-daughter story today. Very heartwarming!

I read with much interest and curiosity. It is interesting and useful for everyone to see life from another family, you can find plenty of interesting things to inspire you for a better life. Especially when it comes to children. Thanks for sharing with us. About pictures: beautiful...like the place where you live!

The lady is like that. They go and try A, B, C, D, E and then go back and say I'll A, right?

Yes, a great picture perfect morning. Being a good dad holding your daughter's things. Finding time to capture purple flowers. Then putting up buckets for your daughter's parallel parking practice. My dad didn't do that for me. Oh yes, KFC I always like the original recipe. I like how you do also. Then a stop at the beach. Look at your daughter. She seems happy with you. Well done.

Wow your photos are outstanding and your food looks to die for. Love your post. Keep up the amazing work as usual @old-guy-photos!😌

Indeed, children grow up very quickly. My oldest daughter is 9 years old. When did this happen?It seems like only yesterday I picked the first socks and hats for her . So really need to spend time with the children. Enjoy this moment while our children are still children.

Man, this was a really really good post, you really combined a ton of life elements into this post.

I feel better just having read it and viewing the great photos and formatting here in this post.

Great work all round!!!

What a super dad, love the pictures and you have a real talent for telling a wonderful tale.