OMG! We are actually the same age. I'm 36 as well. I fully understand what it means for mums to try to protect and control. It's a love that helps and hurts. I find it really limiting when my mum doesn't understand or appreciate the things I try to do especially when she wants me to stop. But we've got to live the life we were born to live. Thanks, I am so deep touched and delighted by your words, actions and the circumstances you were up against.