One pessimistic thought begets another same pessimistic thought. It is vital that moment when you had that bad experience before your eyes, you should’ve asked yourself: “ What is beneficial from this experience would come out?’’ There are great things can always come out from any unpleasant experience, if so, focus on positive aspect of which you can capitalize on what to do next.
• Failed an exam, you can study better the next time around
• Flight delayed, don’t get mad it’s your free time to relax, otherwise make friends
• Pet dies, just love the idea that you don’t have to buy pet foods anymore and after morning poops
• Upset in the office, you can end up landing a new and better job
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Do not focus on the negative don’t get distracted by these intervening circumstances because you become what you think about just focus on what you really want. Draw a demarcation of positive out of negative experiences the truth that you need to really deal with. Make the most of what life has to offer. There is always an opportunity in every situation. Just look at it the positive side. CHANGE IT!
ANGER MANAGEMENT
When you feel that moment of anger sometime an opportunity for you to really grow and become stronger. Betrayals are often make one angry and there are other many ways. In many occasions when you were angry it is always you who brought yourself into it. Therefore, if you opted to be into that occasion of anger then you can get out always from that situation yourself. Am I correct?
Do you crave for this feeling the desire to feel important? Why? This is another fundamental aspect that is imbedded into our system. Out of being humble, you know the reality that something that is not just right when you are ignored. Others may call it REJECTION. You felt less important, these caused you get angry.
Your desire, my desires, theirs too. We have all the same desires to be loved and be given the sense of importance in any way. One must be aware of this because you have to understand that they also desire the same as ours. So treat each other the treatment you guys want to receive.
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Discipline yourself first by believing that your self-worth do not depend on their acceptance or rejection. We are all unique and valuable no matter what in God’s eyes.
That’s all for today Steemians, @aldousph
If to be optimistic is just easy as 1,2,3 then I wouldn't get trouble with my self... good one @aldousph
Hahaha me too that's why it isn't easy to move on? Haha thanks @georgie84