“I have always believed, and I still believe, that whatever good or bad fortune may come our way we can always give it meaning and transform it into something of value.”
Hermann Hesse, Siddhartha
We the optimists or the positive thinkers, are at an advantage in life compared to pessimists or the negative thinkers. I often labeled them as TOXIC . Because our mindset and attitude affects on everything we come across.
Social relationships, our commitments, and also even our own health on all aspects are an integral part of our daily life and obviously we can really feel the negative and positive thoughts, opinions from people specially from those toxic people can have a domino effect on our decisions and in everything we do.
It is really a matter of choice, the way we choose what to think may it positive or negative, has a great impact on the final outcome and is reflected in everything we do. Therefore , it is important to have a balanced outlook in life
As long as you feel pain, you're still alive. As long as you make mistakes, you're still human. And as long as you keep trying, there' still hope." Susan Gale
How can you find yourself if you are not lost? Just over heard the question. Just stop chasing the uncertainties so you’ll not get lost. I don’t even consider failures in relationship nor wrong decisions because those taught us the right way leading us to the so called DESTINATION.
Rediscovering self doesn’t mean you were lost but instead you are building yourself , the better you. The pain and heartbreaks that everyone went through can often lead us to some of the best times of our lives if we only consider those experiences to influence our decisions for the best.
“The person who sends out positive thoughts activates the world around him positively and draws back to himself positive results.” ** Norman Vincent Peale**