i understand your upset about the rape issue given your circumstance, and i dont blame you for being upset over that particular statement. however i dont agree with your "fire away"; you could easily have questioned my statement and presented your screenshot to me and i would have corrected my statement.
some people do distrust me because of things i say when im upset, and i regret it deeply because some people never forgive, or give their trust again.
when im upset about something, I try to ask people for clarification before i assume, or at least try to communicate. it doesnt always work. some people just want to believe what they want to believe, they refuse to understand that what they perceive isnt always the whole story. It hurts me when that happens, or when people say things about me that arent true.
i dont hold grudges, or intentionally try to hurt anyone if i can avoid it, but like you sometimes my mouth and my emotions shoot off before i think of the consequences.
I have no ill intent towards you, however at this point i dont trust you either, given your habit of abusive commenting.