Greetings to all my readers, its my pleasure to be here again and to share with you all, what i consider this morning to be a profitable lifestyle, this has so blessed my life in no small way and i will love to share my experience and the beautiful thing about it. in a way i want to draw the mind of every father and mother here in the #motherhood community.
This is very important, and as far as life is concerned very essential, I see it to be an element of life that should not be played with, or swept under Capet.
I personally have enjoyed the privilege of Good friendship and relationship in the last five years of my life and i have also enjoyed from that of my parent and i can boldly say that, its the best assert anyone in the world can ever think of having, i also believe that the same way our money is secured in the bank, so also we should guide and value this assert. few days ago, i celebrated a friend on hive @uyobong, who has been more like a brother to me, also a few of them who been of great blessings to me, I really do not take it for granted. My life is a product of good friendship, i really do not know how God did it but i have come to know that, i have a huge part to play, in developing and managing the platform by which the relationship grew.
The Experience i can't Forget
This was an eye opener for me, I went into a contract business, to supply a few of my friends who were getting married with clothing's for the Grooms, little groom, Grooms men and a few other accessories for the church wedding, the arrangement was done early enough but due to the fact that the location was far from my place of settlement, i had to planed to go for the cloths in about a week to the wedding day, on my arrival to the city were the cloths were made i only got to know that few of the clothes were not the disign that was paid for, Beloved i could not know what to say or do, it was already at the close of day, i was angry but there was nothing that my anger would do, so i sat down in meditation, thinking on what to do and how to go about it.
The only option available for me was to get a new materials and then contract a few other expert to get the cloth ready in just two days, and it was going to cost me twice the amount i paid before, the truth was that i did not have the money available to pay for it and as well l had just two days remaining for the event, call were coming in, but i could not pick them because every call were a suspect, and summed to be the guy.
I tried putting my head together to be able me configure what to do but i could not. while i laid my head to rest suddenly i remembered that i have not share with a few friend, the challenge at hand, so i sent a text message to a few of them on the event at hand and the help i needed, i did not make any call, but in less than an hour from when i sent the text, there was massive reception of money into my accounts, before i could even say Robinson, i received two times the amount i needed and the work was miraculously delivered a day before the day of the event. i will not be able to share all the experience but i must say that building health relationship is the key to a good living.
What brought the taught into my mind?.
It came heavily on my mind, this morning when i saw, a 65 year old man ridding a bicycle, and because of the heavy traffic on the road, He came down and was rolling the bicycle, so when got to point, he sat down by the side of the road, so i had to go close to him, i realized that he was tired and feeling sleepy, so i greeted him and then ask him if he is okay, he responded that he is tired, so i asked were he is going to, he replied that he is returning from work, then i requested to know the kind of work he does, he said to me, i do watch night duty, that is a night security work, hmmmmmmmmmm, i was short of words though i engage in a longer conversation with him, and as well helped him but when i left there, so much came into my mind, but i only could find answer to about two questions, which am about to share.
- What was he doing with his life when he was younger?
I do believe that there were quiet some amazing opportunities that came his way at the young age, but what i can not tell is how he managed the opportunities as it came to him, it is true that there is time allotted to every thing under the son, and i do believe that there are yokes that a man be better bear in his youth, there are a number of fight that you can scale through as a young person but will never attempt it at old age, I can imagine how life goes with the old man, he does that every day, am even worried about the place that he is paid to secure, how safe is the place, and how is he enjoying the work on the daily basis.
- Did he not build healthy relationship while growing up?
Yes he definitely grew up among many other young people while growing up, he had school mates, church mate and even people within the locality were he grew up, yes all his age mate have not yet died but how are things going that bad with him?
sourcesthis are the friends i grew with and we are still doing fine
A product of healthy relationship
In my thinking, it is like he miss managed all the opportunity he had to relate with his mates, who would have helped him now but he turned it down.
My Sincere words
The old man, am talking about, by now should be a grandfather, or retired from active service in any ministry but i can not tell what happened to him, i want to say that it pays to do good, and its bad to be wicked, lets do well to manage the privileges that we have been opportune to have, let us as fathers and mothers teach our children how to manage the amazing asserts that God has given us, yes i call it an assert, last week, my younger cousin, received a gift from a respectable man in my state, just because, of the family name, In his words, he said, that our father had a good heart and that the scarifies our father made to him 27 years ago is still speaking now.
please even if you don't border about yourself, please take to consideration the future of our children, let your good deeds speak volume in the future. thanks for having me @ekotmordemy