Each parent has its own rules for raising children. As statistics show, most follow the rules that were passed down from previous generations.
Innovations in this area are terribly slowly entering our lives, and that is only thanks to outstanding psychologists and educators. But if your child does not listen to you, argues regularly, is rude, or simply behaves rudely, then it's time to think about what you did wrong and how to fix the situation.
Whatever they say, but still children are the flowers of life. But the flower will not be able to ascend, grow and bloom without comfortable conditions. And this is not about material wealth.
After all, the main thing that we can give children is laid right in the mind. Here are some tips to help you properly raise your child, and then the offspring will definitely give you a glass of water in old age!
How to raise a child
Don't shout at the child
Old and worn tip, but is incredibly useful. When you yell at your child, all the aggression he absorbs like a sponge and eventually just throw it out.
Calm down, take a deep breath and think about what you are so bad. Now mentally prepare for the unpleasant situation and when the time comes, to Express dissatisfaction in a normal tone. It is much easier education.
You can't contain yourself? Yeah, it's hard, no doubt! This is a priceless recommendation, which has already helped many adults to cope with them. First, figure out what is causing you frustration and scream. Be prepared for such a situation is always. Loud music? A bad score? You already passed it and, in theory, should be ready for such troubles. The two of you adult you!
Count to 10. If you do this simple manipulation, to yell is already a shame!
Don't demand too much
Your child will certainly be the best for you, even if he does not win medals in swimming or does not study best.
Do not assume that your offspring should be like you at the same age, or shift to him the realization of all his unfulfilled ambitions. Just look for what he does best, and develop it!
Make a good impression
Children are the mirror of parents, and they will evaluate everything you do and even repeat.
Surprise your child with unexpected skills, show your knowledge, strength, character. Thus, you can not only gain authority, but also invest in the child all the best that is in you.
Discuss, help, persuade
There must be complete mutual understanding between you. Discuss everyday life with your child, be not only his teacher, but also a friend. Help me feel that you can get help and advice from you at any moment, make the family house a fortress for him, in which they will listen and help him.
Convince your offspring that he is the smith of his life, his failures and successes. Great people grow up in an atmosphere of love and understanding.
Spend more time together
Even if in your schedule it is impossible to find a lot of time for a child, use it as efficiently as possible. Reading books, going to the theater, outdoor recreation - incredibly positive impact on your relationship and accustom your child to useful activities.
If the child does not have enough attention, he will begin to look for him with others. And there are no guarantees that in the end everything will be fine
Don't shy away from questions
Even if a child has asked a sensitive topic, do not try to avoid the answer. Children are not yet ready to accept some information, but any uncertainty in the answer will distort the perception of the child. Answer directly, but succinctly if the topic is not pleasant to you.
Do not guard against difficulties
Your task as a parent is to prepare the fragile and carefree children's consciousness for adulthood. Carefully protecting from all problems, this will not work.
The death of relatives, problems in the family, even the banal refusal to buy “that beautiful toy” tempers your child and helps the person to form.
Admit Your Mistakes
When you understand that in the end I was wrong, for example, in a discussion with my son or daughter, do not be afraid to admit this child. Your authority will not fall, on the contrary, you will raise it by restoring justice or correctly recognizing defeat.
So you need to raise a child so that a real person grows up! Do you like the tips? Leave your opinion in the comments. And do not forget to share with friends, they will also be useful.
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I completely agree. We ourselves build and educate our generation.