I totally agree with everything you said! Not choosing is the worst choice, paradoxically. Our culture has these massive toxic ideas and one of them is that you don't have to reproduce which in my opinion is one of the worst things a person can do. I cannot wait to have a child with my girlfriend and I cannot imagine not having a little me. It would just be depressing.
I know, right? I've always been very maternal, too, so it seems so weird now and so wrong that people are actually being made to feel guilty because of wanting that, especially women. Why want a family when you could have a career? As if they could ever be on the same plane, even.