I agree with your position that some people are critical, and we need to make decisions in the moment as we interact with them. There are so many bumps in life. So true!
I like your phrase 'creative critical thinker.' I feel that I can relate to what you said. I like to like of multiple ways to address a concern and then execute the best path.
I pick my battles. I will stand up against a critical spirit to defend a strongly held belief or defend someone who needs help. I can also let things go when there is no real benefit.
Thanks for adding to the conversation!