Similarly, of course a married couple. We should be a 'mirror' for our soul mate.
'Mirror' is honest and expect good for the couple.
Honestly, so we do not let the shortcomings that exist in the couple. We say what it is.
In addition we also become a 'mirror' who want goodness. So the shortcomings we convey with intention to improve itself.
Because of that we must convey in a way that wisdom. So that the couple can receive with a roomy chest.
Not even like the saying 'bad face mirror dibelah'. That is a quarrel because we deliver it in a way that is not right.
On the contrary, we must also realize that our spouse is a 'mirror' for us. Therefore, what he says about us, we should accept. Because it certainly aims to improve ourselves.