Great post! I myself don't like sugarcoated words. You have to be grownup to understand that harshest words come out of the mouth of nicest people. I'm new here and still can't get my head around everything , and by my humble opinion, this little confusing platform. Just shout Money! and you we'll get disorganised chaos, especially if you let large number of people to use it and abuse it. So my dear, one middle aged winging woman will peak across fence to see what you have to say, and maybe you will teach me something, you learn as long you live.
Yeah, there's nothing else like it and it definitely seems strange at first. Fortunately, we have a lot of people in here that can help you. Never hesitate to ask for help if you need it :)