I have UV these to keep this practical needs post close to the top to update readers who usually in life want the TLDR version lol.
I am going to copy you now on a FB message to my friend in SC.
He has a big heart like you and I have hopes we can work something out. I can drop out of the chat there after I put you in touch.
If he can help, he will -- he is a very nice guy and I respect and like him a lot, just like I like you.