Nothing is accidental,accidental or coicidental

Life teaches us lessons every second.
Nothing is accidental, accidental or coincidental!
Whatever happens to us has a well-defined purpose.
It is our choice how and what we want to see, what we think and how we will proceed in the future.
We may choose to avoid or omit to see something else but that everything is an error of the Universe.
Usually we choose the version that we like, it suits us with the mood of that moment and with the degree of our presence in our own existence.

We can choose to see everywhere signs and signals, even those that are not ours.
We can understand the messages, or we can easily keep silence
Or we can simply keep silent and see what's happening to us.

We can also consider every day a new opportunity to explore to hope and to expect new opportunities and surprises that life offers at the same time.
As always, everything is a choice.
Instead of choosing to be upset about life, people, situations, system, etc., would we not have much more to gain if we were a little to see what we had to learn from what was happening to us?
Anger, anger, despair, disappointment, fear, are energy-consuming, occupying so much space in the human mind that it blocks access to consciousness, to any "voice" of reason.
Let's imagine that we made an uninspired decision, and its consequences were very unpleasant.
Instead of staying, seeing where we are wrong, why, when, and how, in order not to repeat the situation, we leave ourselves invaded by anger, regret, misconduct, reproof of conscience that we not only stop , but we begin to feed them, amplify them, until they become so big in our eyes that they are blocking us from seeing something else.
As if an obstacle so suddenly appeared in front of us that the eyes can not see beyond. And instead of bypassing it, avoiding it, finding another way, stopping and weeping for the misfortune that has turned over us, turning our life into an aviary.
Choosing the reaction and the behavior in front of these emerged problems belongs to us.
Everything in life happens with a purpose: learning to become better, so that we can also teach others to guide them when they face obstacles (apparently ) of life's immense.
Nothing happens to make us feel miserable, victims or losers of fate, life or the universe.
Things do not happen with special dedication only to us from the karma. It would be better to stop believing so special that we could imagine that everything is happening to us only.
Nothing happens to us without us having generated that situation through the decisions and decisions taken over the years.
If we sustain 24 hours that we have no guilt for what has happened to us, we will be surrounded by willful obstacles that will prevent us from making optimal decisions for our becoming as people.

And if we do not stop to see where and what we are wrong, we will draw in our lives despair, hatred and contempt for life.
And from this state, how will the decisions we take for the future?
From anger can not be calm; despair is not wisdom.
Regrets do not generate well-being and opening up to the future; reprimands of conscience will not lead to inspirational choices.