Motherhood is being a mother. And being a mother is motherhood. Motherhood is an everyday challenge , it will give you lots of surprises, lots of discoveries , lots of sacrifices. There are joy, sadness , guilt , depression , and it will also give you changes you never thought you'd have.
Let me share to you some or maybe all changes that i can think of that motherhood had given me so far
I Became More Understanding
When i was not a mother yet, all i want to understand is my own reasoning , my own opinion, my own situation, but after being a mother , i learn to understand things better, each little detail of every situation.Understanding it by heart.
I EMBRACED MORE POSITIVITY
Motherhood made me more optimistic. Even the craziest, painful, saddest and disappointing moments , i still want to see the positive side of it. Became positive on people, on chances and failures i've got
I BECAME SELFLESS
Being self-centered no more is another change motherhood gave me. In everything I do, i always think of my kids' welfare , my family first , in food, in money , and such.
I BECAME MORE RESPONSIBLE
Being a mother has made me more focus on my duties and responsibilities. From the chores , the budgeting , and even being a responsible daughter to my parents
LESS SOCIAL LIFE
When i was single , i really am not into going to mall , parties , gigs and such. Yes sometines i make chitchat with mt friends , go malling ,in a restaurant , but that's very rare , afyer becoming mom , i stayed more at home , even my fruends sometimes ask me ro go out, i still prefer homesteading. Actually right now, i can say that steemit is my socila life. LOL
BECOME MORE SKINNY
I have never been a big boucing baby girl since before but at least i am not really that skinny when i was single , but the positive aide of it is that , i know my body is like this right now , because i am giving them the food of love no one ever can , BREASTMILK
MORE SLEEPLESS NIGHTS
I am used to sleeping late when i was still single but then, i can still sleep for ao log and wake up whenever i want, bur after being a mom, I got to wake up each every like 3 hours or 2 to feed them and have to wake up early to prepare everything for the family while the kiddos are still sleeping
BEAUTY CONSCIOUS NO MORE
When i was single , though i am not into make up. I still have set of beauty regimen, from bathing to face creams, moisturizers, scrubs, and such, But after being a mom I do no more of those , i had to bath so quick to balance my time for chores and afraid that the kids might be awake. I can't even comb my hair at times. LOL
I VALUE MY LIFE MORE
Seeing my kids grow , i really am afraid to die so early, so i value my life more , I see to it that i still take vitamins to regain strength physically. I always tend to just inhale and exhale then Smile to bring good vibes in me
GOT STRONGER FAITH
I do pray when i was single, but when i becme a mom, i think i pray a lot, every minute , I thank God for every little things happening in my life, evwn the bad ones, I always talk to GOD specially when i am feeling down , And GOD is definitely always there to guide me and hear me out.
Motherhood is a continous journey. It might bring you lots of struggles but appreciate more the beauty that it has , for no one can love your kids, more than you do
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Love my mom and know how hard she works for us...
yes! i love my mom too,and that i am one , i know how hard it is, yey fulfilling 👍😊 thanks for visiting my post
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👍, thanks for dropping by
mahirap na masarap maging nanay :-).i miss you sis :-) God bless!!
so true sis , miss you more 😘❤️❤️❤️
Bless all the mothers. I can truly relate, sis. Xoxo
we are superwomen sis ❤️❤️❤️
I read this and I feel so peaceful. :) Today I had a tantrum day with my 3 year old. I kind of feel like a sponge, that absorbed all the emotions of my child and now it is so peaceful while she is sleeping. It is so rewarding to be a mom and I could not imagine my life without my little one, but the things you have to learn emotionally..She is growing and I feel like in a way I am growing with her. Still, I have to learn a lot. Thanks for your post!