This is really the reason why I love people on Steem so much.
Anywhere else when there's no accountability and reputation involved in an online settings. You see the most vile attacks against a person sometimes you question why overkill it so much.
But here, only the most kind hearted and positive person rises because of the value he has which everyone else recognizes, except for a few cases maybe.. Altho that user is indeed Steemit's resident asshole.
And I agree that for some cases it takes someone new some time to adjust to the positivity around here. I was lucky I only joined reddit recently a few years back through r/dogecoin, the Exception of reddit's norm. It's why I feel so at home here.
We're glad you are here. :) I'd enter the trenches on reddit. It sometimes felt like I was wading into a trench for warfare. It taught me some skills and I did benefit in some ways. I also learned things I will not do that are done there.