@eurogee this subject matter is really a complex one and it needs serious sensitivity in handling.
First of all, beauty to me is beyond the physical look of a person though physical beauty attracts but what keeps is the inner beauty called virtues.
These virtues include patience, peace, tolerance, endurance, kindness and what have you.
These virtues becomes the magnet that keeps the one who sees the beauty which he beheld.
Strength and weakness is something we all have. The beholder of beauty also checks if these excesses can be managed for effective co-existence.
So beauty is in the eyes of the beholder because these factors i listed above will play major role in making it a reality.
Anyways these are all from my point of view and are subjected to constructive criticism.
Thanks for sharing this valuable piece of information.
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Quite a detailed and thoughtful response. Thanks a lot bro