Oh, wow, @axios! I read your article after you shared it with me. I love how we can make friendships here this way.
So basically I resonate a lot with you too now! I myself have been through a polyamorous journey and faced so many challenges, dissolved so many of my insecurities and discovered so many things about myself, indeed compersion was my life-saver at critical points when jealousy would almost choke me to death.. hehe.. glad those times are over now..
I totally hear you, it's all about freedom of spirit, and having that freedom honoured and understood by your partner is incredibly satisfying, creates a very deep bond.
May I ask, is your partner your primary one? I know there are various polyamory structures, what is yours? Just curious to know. I'm at the moment celibate for six months, after being in and out of relationships since I was a teen.. haha.. now I'm focusing on self-love, my writing and my relationship to God :)
I'm looking forward to reading more of your posts and hope you will read some of mine too!
Yes I totally agree. Have connected with a few on here already and it feels great. Especially considering the fact that we're all creating and supporting each other on here in more ways than one :)
I consider my partner a primary. That seems to be the structure that feels best right now. I know there are other egalitarian styles but this one seems to feel right for now, especially as we continue to strengthen our bond.
That's so great to hear that you're committing to yourself like that. I think that's such a powerful decision to make, especially if you've spent a fair amount of time with others.
I wish you the very best on your journey and yes - I also look forward to experiencing your future creations as well :)
Awesome, thanks for your reply! Wish you lots of love and an ever deepening bond with your primary partner, may both of you flourish and learn lots together :) Yes self-commitment is primary at the moment, and I love every single second of it! Best wishes, I'm sure we'll hear from each other again.