I suppose if people can't handle the truth that I share with them, they don't ask my for my opinion or advice more than once, problem just kind of takes care of itself I suppose. With family there is much more guilt tripping involved though.
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Haha! Yes it does... and yeah family guilt... ugh. I know that one all too well. But even though I get some guilt from that, I also don't have the lie sitting over my head for years and years. And that to me is better than living with the guilt of knowing that I lied. One lie is told, then another to keep up the first one and so on... It's just not worth it to me. Especially considering that I have a horrible memory and that in itself gets me caught in lies more than anything. So I just stopped lying in order to save everyone else's feelings and at the same time sacrificing my own in order to do so.