I know your impadct here is positive. Looking forward to reading and being challenged by your posts daily. It has helped me become a more reflective person, to challenge my own thinking, and just be better. So you at least have a positive impact on one knuckle dragger from across the pond.
There is a song by Garth Brooks called The Dance. In it he says "I could have missed the pain, but I'd had to miss the dance."