Reminded of a couple of things here....
Most events are simply "events" (rain, natural disasters, etc.) and the problems arise because we insist on assigning some kind of "value" to them... like "good," or "bad" or whatever.
Then there's the human tendency to want to gather "external explanations" for processes happening inside us; in our psyche. "Such and such MADE me do that." No. No, it didn't... you just FELT like doing it, in that moment... but you're unwilling to own that...
Good post; good thoughts,,,