Some of us might believe that they are free and independent but almost all of us are being dominated without us even knowing of it.
The society, no doubt puts restriction on us, especially when someone says or does something which has never been done before. People are afraid of change, because change is difficult and when someone starts a revolution, they oppose. It's human nature that we don't want to change because we believe that it will prove that we were wrong and our ego can't bear to be proven so.
A common thing is correct according to people, no matter how unequal, useless, idiotic or illogical it is. They will keep doing it because everyone else is doing it.
Most of the time, the revolutionists and the individualists are buried in the crowd by the society. Only because of a few persistent and stubborn individualists, this world is able to upgrade itself.
We are developed in technology, we are quite modernized. It all happened just because of some people who never gave up to bring change.
They were some people, who broke their chains and didn't listen to the society. You too can be added to the list but you won't, because you will give up. Only a minimal percentage of the total, succeeds in bringing a change.
So the question here is that is the society responsible for our failures or we ourselves?
Boys too are tied in these chains, but girls suffer more from it. People try to westernize, but when it comes to give liberty to women, we forget it all.
I will not talk about the restrictions that women face. It can be found everywhere else. Here, I will talk about the importance of breaking these restrictions, who actually is responsible for it and how to do that?
No matter boy or girl, if you believe in something that the world doesn't, go for it. Even if you are proved wrong in the end by the world, its still no harm !! Why?? Because if you wouldn't be able to change the world, then at least your mindset would change, and change is necessary, change is good.
What's good is that someone will change, either you or the world, so go for it. Don't give up. Don't be frightened of failure. People can fail because they are people, not Gods. People might taunt you but don't take it seriously. Let the dogs bark. It's what they can do. You do what YOU can do.
So again, the question is, who is to blame? Would you blame a dog for barking? Or would you blame yourself for giving up because of those barks? Obviously, obstacles are always there, but instead of whining and questioning God or your life, question yourself.?
No matter who is restricting you, either others or you yourself, you need to come out of it or you will never know what could've taken place, if you would have fought instead of crying.
You would never know how you could have become the next person to change this world. You would never be aware of your true potential and your true capabilities if you give up, and if you don't break your chains.
