There are some mistakes in which people get to automatically acquire hatred of others. The problem is that this hatred is difficult to address, because it will turn into a general impression. So what is it ?
- There are many reasons that may make you easily hate others, whether you mean it or not. But what we have to talk about before we mention these reasons is that the gain of hatred of others is the worst curse that can be inflicted on humans. This is because human relations are the basic foundation of the normal psychological state of man. Hence, dear reader must understand that any of the following reasons must be avoided so as not to gain hatred of people. And I want to make one more important thing, that it is impossible to gain the love of all people. Because there are some people who will hate you even if you are very good. But the truth is that you are at least not hated by all people. Do not be bad in the sense of the word, do not give the right to others to hate you. But make your dealings with all men, He who defends you before your enemies. Fight hatred with good and love. Believe me if you are designed to ignore people and deal with them in ways that gain their hatred, your life sooner or later will turn into a life hell that you can not escape
1/ Pride and vanity (transcendence) : In principle there is a difference between pride and vanity, and I do not want to confuse them. But both fall under the heading of transcendence. But at this point I will try to be detailed so I explained to you how to handle each order on my own, not to confuse pride and vanity. We will begin with pride, which is to deal with others with a higher or transcendent logic. In the sense that you see yourself higher than before you, speak to him in a way that shows him that he is less than you. Not only that, but pride makes a person up to the stage that he does not need others, and considers that no one deserves to befriend him or sit with him or deal with him. And makes this person an exploitative person, because the truth that no one can do without others. You find such a person does not respect the emotional relationship, for example, only exploits the partner no more and no less. Vanity is another type of transcendence, but it is effective in gaining hatred of others. It is about seeing a person for himself and not seeing others. He thinks he can do anything easily. He's smarter than his friends, he's sweeter than his partner, or he does not need to go and look for work, but the job has to look for him. Therefore you find like a person earning hatred of others once he has confessed with people in doing something. Because he often sees that there is no such thing in this world. Which is also known as narcissism. So dear reader always try to deal with people around you by your nature. Do not underestimate them and do not raise your business, even if you see someone trying to transcend you, do not deal with him so as not to be with him and become arrogant like him. Because transcendence is generally one of the most common psychological diseases among people, do not make a disease that controls you even though you can control it voluntarily.
