You're welcome, thanks for the feedback. I was thinking of that comment you had made a while back, forgot who it was or where. Do you recall? I forgot to save it ;) It's important for people to be able to speak honestly and tell their SO when they are being an idiot essentially, otherwise they have to learn on their own, and when we love someone we want to be better together.
What do you both do together? Is it talked and stimulating each other that way, or do you do activities that aren't intellectual?