You create your own inner reality that reflects the outer reality, accurately or not. You have perceptions that are only yours, and info that you have that doesn't match 100% what others have, so this creates a unique perception of the totality of objective reality, but you don't create objective reality alone ;) That is shared by all.
Real magic? Like fantasy magic in fiction? No, not real as far as I know. I wasn't talking about that at all ;)
Magic is of influence that is words, language, images,etc. to get people to take in information and be influenced by it to alter their perceptions or the world, accurate or not. What we do is based on the info we have, and the motivations from how we view ourselves and the world, which has all been influenced into us from birth. Everything we see and hear influences us, and a lot of it affects what we think, feel and do in some degree.