The word community, or maybe more commune, does conjure up uncomfortable images. There always seem to be rules imposed. But you're right, this does work better. Perhaps because there are no set rules, expectations or boundaries, giving you the ability to set your own. The community is organic, as it should be. Years ago villages were communities that developed and weren't purposefully created.
BTW, love your circle jerk post! It should have done way better than it did, but It may well be immortalised!!
I did kind of have a field day with that one. Focusing on negative behaviors for a long time never really seem to get me anywhere but pissed off though, so I don't make those posts all that often. :)
It may have been about negative behaviour, but you sure put a fun spin on it! I was reading it out loud to hubby and we couldn't stop giggling! If you're going to complain, do it well! Lol