Not gonna lie but this hits me right in the feel when I came across it lol There are times in our lives where we let certain people or situations affect us negatively repeatedly. Yet, we wait, complain, and hope one day it will get better, other than deal with it and accelerate its ending.
If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, then leave it.
We are not meant to be stuck in one place or with one situation. We are meant to overcome it, and move on.
Things that bother us are the things we can't yet overcome. You put your mind to either what you love, or what bothers you. What I've learnt in the past is to not be bothered by what the world throws at you. If it bothers you, don't talk about it. If it doesn't make you happy, don't focus on it.
I believe that the world throws us in difficult situations so we can grow. You might notice that there are only a few similar unpleasant occasions that keep happening to you. This is actually the hint that this is what and where you need to learn from.
Everything is going to be okay in the end. If it's not ok, then it's not the end. And it will not end until you can accept it.