What if we could start our lives from scratch, to be born again.
What's done is done, The main thing is to start from scratch. We all made mistakes in our lives, Things we want to forget, Things we want to erase from our memories forever. No matter what you went through, what did you do, all that was? past! Ends! Was!
What's done is done, The main thing is to start from scratch. We all made mistakes in our lives, Things we want to forget, Things we want to erase from our memories forever. No matter what you went through, what did you do, all that was? past! Ends! Was!
Yes, but there are a lot of good things we've done with them in our lives, what will happen to them? We also have good memories and images of our lives that we do not want to erase from the memory, What about our children? What will happen to our family and friends? There are also all the insights we have acquired in hard work, studies, what about knowledge...
Let's really take a few minutes to think about this: we can start living again, There is nothing that can prevent this from us, everything is possible if we just decide to do it.
True, whatever you decide to do or change in our lives, there will be consequences, We should be willing to make concessions certain to be willing to change things. Everything has a price, one thing comes at the expense of another.
We love our routines, our everyday life and know them very well. I believe that none of you did want to give up something of his life. So how can we move forward like this? If you want to change your life - something needs to change, is not it?
So, What would you be willing to give up in order to be reborn?
The only thing fixed in our lives is change. Many things we can avoid but not from the change that comes with time. Many people try to interfere in the way of change, but it is much stronger than them. Changes are the only safe thing we really have, we are surrounded by changes and have the greatest dramatic impact on our lives. Even if we continue to escape the changes, the changes always have a way to catch up
Back to us. The changes force us to relive our lives each time. The change can come to our lives as a result of a crisis, either by choice or by chance. The best changes occur by choice, it is always better to motivate changes in life than to have to make changes. We can not, however, avoid unexpected events in our lives,
These events challenge our complacency in life. The only thing we can control when we experience these challenging events is how we choose to respond to them. Our power of choice allows us to exert positive change in our lives. The energy that works out of the power of choice gives us another chance to change our lives for the better.
Find meaning in life
It is important to spend some time alone trying to find out what things give you meaning in life. What are the things you want to achieve in your life? What are your dreams? What makes you so happy? Your personal meaning in life gives you a goal and determines the direction of "how you want to live your life." Unintentionally you can spend the rest of your life wandering purposelessly and without any direction or focus.Follow our dreams
When we were children we used to dream all the time. Daydreams were a big part of our reality, in which imagination took command. We used to walk through information and imagine what happens when we grow up. Once we believed that everything was possible. But we grew up to be adults who had lost the ability to dream. Our dreams have become hidden and the belief that achieving our dreams possible seems suddenly foolish, remote and even impossible. To make an "inspiration board" or "dream board" can be very focused and directed. A dream board is a great way for us to start believing in dreams again. By looking at each day in our dream board, the motivation to achieve them will gradually increase. Our dreams will become more tangible and attainable, only by changing our line of thought.Set specific goals to achieve our dreams
Once you know what is important in your life, you must take long-term actions to achieve our ultimate goals. Only in this way will we succeed in realizing our dreams. Remember, your goals may change. Do not be afraid to be flexible with the definition of your goals, but nevertheless, the results of your goals must always reflect your dreams. Take a small step each day toward fulfilling your dreams.
Release the regrets of the past
Regrets only hold you in the air. When you regret it, you are not actually present. Regrets about past events make us lose the time we have at the moment. Thus we may also miss the past, the present and certainly the future. It is impossible to change the things that were done in the past, so it is better to simply let it be forgotten. The only thing we really have control over is the choice to live life right now, in the full sense of the word. Try a little exercise that will free you from lathes, blacksmiths and a pile of balloons like the number of your regrets. Now write about each balloon of remorse. When you were finished, go and blow up every regret. "I do not compete anymore, everything I did led me to be who I am today and therefore - I am complete with who I am now."Start making the things that frighten us
There is nothing more satisfying than defeating the inner fears. It depends only on us, leaving our comfort zone. Make a list of the things that frighten you, scare you, drive you crazy, leave you awake at night with excitement. Now that you are aware of your fears, all that is left now is to go and deal with them. Never stop doing the things that frighten you, and that's the only way you can stay young forever.Start living a balanced life
Our health is not going to stay the same. We are going to have more changes in our physical, emotional and spiritual state as we grow older. However, we can control how we feed our mind and body. Living a balanced and healthy life builds resilience to the physical changes of our bodies. Physical activity is the best way to achieve a positive and optimistic attitude to life. Living a healthy, well-balanced life with lots of physical activity is a lifestyle choice that will surely give you a happier, happier and happier life.
Control the fears
Ignore our fears and hope they will disappear, unfortunately, it does not work that way. If you want to change your life, learn to control your fears. Give them up and do not let them control you. Our fears are only thoughts in our minds, they are not real, but over time we begin to believe that they are true. These are just our fears that stop us from living our lives to the fullest. We know when our fears dominate our lives because we feel dissatisfied with everything. Once we deal with our fears we take back our power and choose how we want to live our lives and when we do that we change our lives forever.Take responsibility for our life
The only person he is going to make a change in your life is you! And to create change is always good to surround yourself with people full of love. Find your courage, love yourself, love others, go out and do something crazy. Do not worry about what someone is thinking or whether it's the right thing to do right now. In your heart, if it feels right, it's probably true. Now go out and create the life that will make you happy.live the moment
Many of us tend to think the grass is greener on the other side. We often get to the other side of the fence and then discover that the grass does not look exactly as we thought. The motivation to change our lives comes from our desire to be happy. We are often so busy focusing on our pursuit of happiness that we forget the moment, the moment feels like a deep yearning for joy that has to live the moment. Even sitting on a beach and eating with the best friend can be a moment of happiness. We must appreciate and acknowledge on a daily basis to discern every moment of happiness. This observation can change our lives in an instant, so do not miss these moments because you are too busy focusing on the pursuit of happiness.Experience the joy of learning
Every time you learn something new you gain more knowledge and with more knowledge comes more confidence. Learning helps us develop rapid adaptation and flexibility to any new and surprising situation. Learning encourages us to be more creative and innovative in our thinking. Learning makes us feel more comfortable with the unknown. Learning gives meaning to our lives and makes our lives worthwhile. Now, you have the opportunity to change your life by choosing. Choose to act in these 10 ways and will surely change your life forever! Wishing you a lot of success.
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and life when we are happy, rich, healthy, living in abundance and giving
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Thank you very much, dear friend, I'm glad you came back
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Another excellent piece of work, I haven't read all the way through yet - I'm going to have to save it until I have some free time between Christmas and New Year!
Thank you very much, dear friend, I'm glad you came back
Merry Christmas
Great post! I find myself at a place in life where I've accomplished the main set of goals/dreams I had as a child. I became a mom, I wrote and produced plays for our local theater, I became a teacher (of my own children and others) and I have enjoyed that... now I feel stuck not quite knowing what to do next as my children are adults and leaving home. This was a very good, thought provoking post.
Apparently, you've run out of projects, Do you need goals in life?
Thank you very much for your wonderful response
This is a positive balance of a reality check. Thank you
Do you think there is a balance?
Thanks for the comment :)
Very good post sir. If we were educated to observe and live every single moment in our lives then humanity's evolution would be more ahead...
Resteemed
I think we are beginning to understand our mistakes,
Change takes time, evolutionary - several thousand years,
Thank you very much for your attention
That's a wise topic to be discussed with. I have constantly asked myself a question, "What would I want to be if I reborn or what superpower I would rather have?" The answer always comes to one, the one who can resurrect another person. I am not sure is it wise but, I had enough seeing people leaving the world where they don't even deserve to be yet... Thank you for sharing, this post really does trigger my thinking all over again..
" trigger my thinking all over again.."
This is the most important Thing in my opinion,
In this way, it is possible to develop and grow.
Thank you @explorernations
"The change can come to our lives as a result of a crisis, either by choice or by chance. The best changes occur by choice, it is always better to motivate changes in life than to have to make changes. " I especially agree with this and the idea that we should challenge ourselves by making what we are afraid of. Writing truth is my challenge. Excellent post. Upvoted and resteemed.
"Writing truth is my challenge" Why is this a challenge?
Thank you very much for the kind words
I was silenced by abuse throughout my life. I choose not to be silenced anymore, but the abusers still exist. I have to push through the patterns I was taught to create new patterns of self-love through writing with honesty and integrity despite what abusers will say. <3
I always say:
If you care what other people say about you, You live their life, not your life.
Read this excellent post By @jaynie, This is a quote from the post:
"I don’t think we should ever be afraid to express “who we are” and "what we feel" simply because of what other people might think of us or what we do. If you love someone – tell them and show them! Just do whatever your heart tells you to do! And screw the rest of it!"
Your text is my speech to me evry morning.
And you're my light,
Thank you very much @mahy
Hi @nirgf, hice post. Here are some thoughts about unexpected changes that I liked:
The only certainty is uncertainty, we should all accept that and be curious about the future.
If we become still in a muddy river, the mud around us will settle and the water will become clearer.
We will not win the war against the uncertainty by becoming certain, instead we find stability by embracing uncertainty and telling the universe "bring it on".
Learn to be the fish. Let the river guide you and just adjust slightly to move in the best possible direction.
I'm new to Steemit and I plan to post about life philosophy, I'm looking forward to open-minded discussions with you!
Glad to hear you liked the post - thank you very much.
open-minded discussions - That's what I like about steemit platform :)
You're most welcome. I've just published an article about human life worth philosophy. Would love to hear your opinion about it. : )
Thats the bitter truth... well written
This is not encouraging you know?
Thank you very much for the response
Wow....saya sangat geli melihat foto nya
Terima kasih banyak
Iya kawan
I really like your idea, will try to implement it in my life, thank you!
Thank you very much willingness for positive change in your life :) @noogler
@nirgf
I love this part more, i think i have learn something from your post itself
We can and should learn more
Every time I write a post, I also learn from him
Thank you very much for your response @mayowadavid
I also learn alot from writing my own post, my last post was actually about how to recover steemit password, it actually started with a mere write up not until i started making more research. To be honest i never knew i will end up with more and more information.
well i think i will start to focus more of my attention on post i will start to learn from.
My favorite points here was:
#1 Remembering how to dream again. I agree, it's so vital. We forget that we can be much more than we are. Life grounds us out a lot and keeps us humble, but that doesn't mean we can't see beyond the logical conclusions and see the magic that life has to offer! (I've been learning to do this more this year)
#2. Writing down your fears and confronting them is the other. It's so damn important to do this. What I've noticed is that when I choose to confront the fears, I have less fear in my life. When I don't deal with the fears, they just get bigger and harder to control. So I just try to nip'm while they're small.
Great post here @nirgf! I'd love to hear your thoughts about my recent post about developing a powerful mindset: Transform Your Life Now: How To Initiate The Meta-Verse
Thank you, I'll see your post and I will respond
yes life is a complicated thing ... and in my opinion, it's interesting, you get experience, etc.
Life is a journey. A journey of countless choices that begin with thoughts, it can be a desperate journey or a fascinating journey - of countless opportunities to grow and develop
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Let us all be reminded that everything happens for a reason and whatever it is that happens before has helped us to become the better version now. we might regret some of it but experiencing all those bcome the ticket for our success now or in the future. Let us just learn from the past experiences and start to be better whenever it happens again. That is whats important- the learning and realizations... Thank for this friend! This will surely help and inspire others like me.. :)
We are who we are because of our past
I agree with your every word - you're right
Thank you very much dear friend
You're welcome!! I love reading posts like this one! :)
Great Post @nirgf like the "Take responsibility for our life" part, I feel it is very important that we do take responsibility! and I really like the way you used the quotes in your post
We manage to blame everyone for our problems,
When we understand that we are the problem, we can begin to solve them
Thank you for the excellent response - I like it very much
Always welcome :) you deserve it!