The Alphas...
The alpha male and female roles are currently being very distorted by the propaganda of the day. The alpha male is portrayed as an aggressive bully and the alpha female as some strong kickass warrior leader. Both are so far from the truth that it is sickening. From the perspective of the rulers, only alpha males can challenge their positions of power so the more they can degrade the image of this and convince women that weak docile men are the desirable males, then males will adapt to the women's preferences to try and attract a partner. The emasculation of males is very obvious in every aspect of life, the war on the "patriarchy" is nothing but propaganda to further demonize men and their natural roll in society.
So then, what is an alpha male? An alpha male is first and foremost a leader, he takes the safety and well being of those around him as his primary goal. A good alpha male is not arrogant or egotistical, he understands that he does not know everything and will not always make the right decision. This allows him to take valuable input from others in the group and weigh it objectively to make the best decisions he can make. He VALUES constructive criticism much more than praise. To the alpha male praise is useless and only unbalances the ego. Criticism gives additional information and perspective in order to make better decisions in the future. The alpha male is the most compassionate of the males and feels the pain of all members of the group. He works to balance out the needs of all around him in order to keep the group strong and healthy, at the same time he is not afraid to make the tough decisions that not all member will be able to understand when they have to be made for the long-term benefit of the group. He tries to inspire and uplift all around him, not beat them down and into submission. At the same time, he is not afraid to reprimand behavior that is harmful to the group and even banishes members who repeatedly harm the group as a whole. He constantly looks for additional information, staying physically healthy, avoiding vises and excesses, is constantly learning new things, and improving himself so he can be a better leader and role model for the group.
Now let's look at the Alpha female. She is always the heart of the group. She provides the glue that holds everyone together. The alpha female does all the little things that make the world worth living in. She has a very strong will and can easily dominate the weaker males and females of the group, and uses this to subtly change the behaviors of those that are not being beneficial to themselves and the group. Where the alpha male reprimands she encourages healthy constructive behavior that benefits not only the group but the individual as well. She shows the women of the group how to be a true woman, not silly girls. She provides the compassion to the sick to help them recover. The alpha female operates subtly behind the scene, where the alpha male is the long-term planner and strategist, she is the subtle influence that encourages and enriches the day to day lives of the group. She is the balance of the alpha male and provides him valuable feedback of the needs of the group and plays devil's advocate to challenge the thinking of the alpha, never letting him get complacent in his thinking, yet trusting him to listen to her input and have the wisdom to make the best decision in the end. She pushes the alpha males to constantly strengthen their wills so she can not dominate them, and both are enriched when a woman finds an alpha that she can not dominate, one that is her equal. She understands that she is prone to emotional reactions and trusts the alpha male to keep this in check. The alpha male knows he can be harsh and may overreact and he depends on the alpha female to provide a soft gentile restrainment when she sees he needs to be softer.
The alphas are COMPLIMENTARY they are not competitors. They are EQUALS, neither able to dominate the other, but they know their roles and places and value the other more than anything else. They are extremely passionate and this can lead to volatility, but they are wise enough to understand that sometimes passion can look like anger and forgive each other for letting their passions get the best of them at the moment. They are quick to forgive and forget. They have an intensity between that forms very strong bonds that last forever, and when they are broken each is driven into the lowest of lows.
In modern society, these roles have been completely distorted and it is having a detrimental impact on society. Anyone with eyes to see can see society is clearly very sick. It will not be healed until we understand the roles of both males and females and return them to the natural order. All males and females should be alphas in their own house, the stronger/more wise alphas should slowly rise to lead large sections of the group they belong and this leadership should primarily be done by example. This is the natural order of the world and only when we return to it will we see a reversal in the ever-growing numbers of both unhappy men and woman.
Thanks for reading :)
Oz
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