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RE: The Cowardly Mindset of "It's Extreme to Push Your Opinions of What's Wrong"

in #philosophy7 years ago (edited)

I need to preface my thoughts on this by stating unequivocally that by no means am I suggesting that all men and women are like how I am about to lay out. But due to our human dispositions and drives biologically, enough are that we are seeing what we have now.

During my childhood, I saw the last of the men who were publicly allowed to be men. It was still celebrated. But then, many men were still in the homes, teaching their sons how to grow to become men. One of the vast differences between men and women are how we react to our surroundings. Women have great power in this dynamic, although they pretend they do not. Women are beings, men are doings.

The major driving force that has given men the impetus to create the vast civilizations we have now was done using the sexual energy that catches most men up. It was, and is for most men in their nature to please a woman, to give her the world if you would. And men were celebrated and appreciated by women for these marvels and achievements as I said, into my childhood.

But I watched the change occurring during my childhood. Men were suddenly now considered toxic and controlling. Some would argue that men were inherently violent and rapists, the lot of them. These ideas slowly penetrated the worlds of media and education, imprinted upon the fresh minds eager to soak up what they believed was higher learning.

During my life since, men have become almost unwelcome in the very civilization that was built, maintained and protected for the most part solely by men. We are no longer welcome in our homes, no longer welcome to be more than paychecks for our children after having most of our possessions ripped from us in family courts. Often the children are turned against us.

So now we have these children being raised by single mom. Once again, I will refer you to my first sentence in this lengthy response. One of the ways women differ from men is in their connection to the social dynamic. Since time began their welfare depended on this dynamic, as mans depended on his ability to build, contribute and safeguard the areas built for family and neighbor. Women do not like rocking the boat, and often you will find women eager to find a consensus among those she likely considers her peers. The way men react is vastly different as men were more prone to voice concern or take a stand to defend the welfare of the tribe, even if it meant challenging those of stature within the tribe. Women frown upon this, and this in part makes up what is coined toxic masculinity.

So we are at what you describe now. Males being trained at school, in media and at home that their very nature is toxic. That they need to fight off their natural impulses to speak up, one doesn't rock the boat. Often the kids are drugged by the "experts" who have convinced mom it is what the child needs to shed himself of these bad tendencies. The poor boy has no real male role models to look to. None. Men are viewed as creepy if they interact with children to any degree at all, which is why you have seen such a decline in male teachers over the years. Discipline is not welcome at school. That is part of toxic masculinity.

So is it a surprise to see many younger men apathetic? They have been told their whole lives men are a necessary evil, maybe not even necessary. Many of them have watched their moms devastate multiple men financially or worse over their lives. I would submit that now that men have no social standing for being a man, is in fact crucified for it both socially and legally in many cases, it could lead to no other place.

I didn't even touch on the subject of the forced ingestion of estrogen being bombarded on males during this entire mind op taking place. That is why you saw the victory by Trump, why you see the popularity of the likes of Jordan Peterson and Stefan Molyneux. They are close to destroying the spirit of men and those not lost for good clutch to these men as a sort of safety line. Imagine not being told you are the problem as you are shook down and demanded more from daily.

Sorry for the length of the reply, I could have written a book on this really because I have taken to wondering in my cynicism if this ship can even be turned around.

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Great comment, Thank you for adding it to the post :) Appreciated :)