It is a good question. I think I have come to realize-- over time-- that most arguments are not as "big a deal" as I remember them to be. I can ask myself... in the greater scale of things that happen in the world, how important was this REALLY?
Most of the time, I come up with "not very important."
That is very good point of view. Cuts the time for thinking in half, and puts you in the right mood. I like it! Thanks for sharing your opinion!