Your understanding of what constitutes reality is too limited. Like examining a shadow when there are other unobservable dimensions.
The horrendous things that are happening on this planet are the direct result of man's having been given free will and every chance to show that he can't handle it. There is an epic spiritual war going on and human hearts are the battlefield.
Flesh and blood are as expendable as your electronic character in a video game. It is merely your temporary "avatar" in this world. It's annoying to get killed in this artificial "matrix", but the real battle is taking place on a much higher level of reality. A place where science is unable to contribute understanding.
For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.
Until you understand this, a whole lot of things will not make any sense.
This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill—the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill—you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes. Remember: all I'm offering is the truth. Nothing more.
I, for one, am staying in Wonderland.