I'd like to counter this as well, but first I'd like to ask you to go more into detail on this particular excerpt, as I'd hate to misinterpret exactly what you're saying.
" It is smart too, because you pull up these emotional topics, skim them and then go back to the party line of equality. This kind of thought process always strikes me as a form of passive aggressive support. It is the kind of support that says I am here for you until I am not."
Because if you mean what I think you do then I think you're inferring something which I did not mean to imply. I would describe myself as a great deal of things, but passive aggressive isn't one of them.