It has so many effects across people's lives and I think is a major reason for some forms of depression as people are essentially encouraged not to do the work but, expect the outcomes of doing the work. It is a conflict in position and comes with disappointment, which would be fine but unfortunately, the same people haven't the skills to deal with the disappointment either.
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Yes, precisely because they don't learn to cope as children when it's something that isn't so important and they have the support of adults to help them develop the coping mechanisms.